The Universal Solvent

If you’ve followed this column over the years, you know that physical, chemical, and emotional stressors, beyond the individual’s ability to adapt, are the root cause of nearly all disease.  Two of these are easier to adapt to and prevent a state of excess.  For physical stress, you need to make time for regular exercise and utilize healing methods such as chiropractic, massage, physical therapy, yoga, etc.  In the case of chemical stress, you need to reduce the toxins from fake foods, drugs/medications, and other chemicals while fortifying with the proper sources of lean proteins, fruits and vegetables.  But what do you do for emotional stress?  Given the season, I thought this would be an appropriate time to discuss strategies of psychological stress reduction.

I found an article that was given to every patient that came to the Mayo Clinic for treatment of fibromyalgia.  The article was all about forgiveness.  The article stressed that we all need to let go of grievances, anger, resentment, guilt, and regret.  These negative emotions only hurt the person who’s carrying them while stimulating the hormones in our body that perpetuate the stress response.  This response is known to cause high blood pressure and cholesterol, inflammation and pain, depression, sleep disorders, sexual dysfunction, cancer and virtually every other ailment.  As the Mayo article states, we have to let go in order to begin the healing process.  Traditionally, there are five basic steps to achieve complete forgiveness.  First you need to forgive any other person that is involved.  This does not mean you agree with the person or condone their behavior – you’re just letting go and not letting them control you anymore.  Next, you allow the other person to forgive you for any part you may have played in the situation or conflict.  Most importantly you need to forgive yourself.  Fourth, you need to learn the lesson from the situation.  Try to find some positive lesson you can gain from going through even the most negative experience.  Finally, and this one’s the toughest, once you recognize a lesson, you need to be grateful for that lesson and the opportunity the conflict gave you to learn from that situation.  These steps sound simple and sometimes it can be when you’re ready to let go. 

Emotional stress truly is the silent killer because it gets into our subconscious mind and alters our physiology through the stress response.  Fortunately, healthy diet and exercise can help shut off the stress response temporarily.  Yoga and meditation are also very helpful at interrupting stress at a subconscious level and helping to restore emotional homeostasis.  But forgiveness is the universal solvent that heals the negative emotions linked to so much stress.  In the spirit of Christmas, I thought I’d leave you with scripture from Mark 11:25:  “And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”  Wishing you peace and forgiveness this Christmas and in the coming new year.

Giving Thanks

As a chiropractor, I’m always challenging people to look to the cause of their pain, ailment, or illness because unless you uncover the cause, you’ll always be treating and managing the symptoms.  The World Health Organization has reported that the ultimate cause of any loss of health is excessive amounts of physical, chemical, and/or emotional stress beyond the body’s natural ability to adapt.  Research suggests that emotional stress is the single biggest factor of these different stressors.  In my discussions with people, I certainly find that many are dealing with excessive amounts of this emotional stress resulting with increased pain, sleep disorders, anxiety and depression, digestive disorders, amongst other health problems.  In preparation for Thanksgiving, I wanted to share a reminder of a strategy on how to reduce the effects of our daily stress.

First of all, I’d like to emphasize that we weren’t born into stress.  Instead, we experience different stress, and over time we practice this stress until we get very good at it.  In time, our conscious stress (what we perceive and what we choose to focus on) becomes subconscious stress.  In subconscious stress, our brain is functioning in a revved-up, fight/flight state that is appropriate for survival (fighting a bear) but not appropriate for every-day life.  When our brain is in this state, it changes our physiology through our nervous system and our hormones and our organs start to function differently. Eventually, this can manifest as almost any disease out there.  So we must interrupt the stress response!  Physical exercise, yoga, meditation, prayer, and other disciplines have been proven to decrease stress.  But given the season, I would like to encourage you to just try another strategy that can reduce the subconscious stress.  This strategy is using a gratitude journal.

Science has proven that our brain cannot be in a state of stress and gratitude at the same time.  This is why I like to call, gratitude the universal solvent of all emotional stresses.  All you need is a small notebook or journal and a pen by your bed stand.  In the mornings, before your feet hit the floor, you simply write down five things that you’re grateful for.  These can be big or small.  This is to allow you to at least begin your day in this state with the goal of staying in a state of gratitude as long as possible.  Then at night, right before your head hits the pillow, you read some of the things you’ve written over the mornings until you feel like you are back in that state of gratitude.  This will work best if you stay in this state and don’t let any other thoughts enter your head until you’re asleep.  In doing this, you will be retraining the subconscious mind to be in this state rather than a state of anxiety, depression, anger, etc.  This is a simple strategy that will render results over time.  Give it a try and have a Happy Thanksgiving!

Why it Works

It will soon be a new year with new resolutions and many, many, new gym memberships.  I believe this is a great thing!  What’s not great is how many people fail to meet their health goals and go back to their old habits after just a couple months.  After helping coordinate our wellness program, I’ve seen that there are three main reasons for this phenomenon.  First, people have the intention but no plan or knowledge of how to meet their goals, so they get frustrated and quit.  Secondly, they overdo it, get sore or hurt from exercising the wrong way and get frustrated and quit.  Finally, even with a plan, the hard work didn’t produce the results desired as quickly as hoped so they get frustrated and quit.  The beauty of RTC Wellness Program or any complete health enhancement program is that it addresses these three pitfalls.

We can all walk into a gym and within just a few minutes pinpoint who knows what they’re doing and who does not.  The ones who know what they’re doing simply had a plan while the others did not.  When you walk into the gym or step onto any machine, you need to know what your workout will be.  How long will it take, what parts are you working, and how much are you doing?  The easiest way to get a plan like this is to consult a personal trainer who can design your workouts to meet your specific goals.  But remember, you need to change your workouts routinely to keep improving and challenging your body for results.  To address the second pitfall mentioned above, I would also consult a personal trainer.  The main reason people get injured with exercise is that they don’t know how to do it properly.  Another reason for injury or excessive soreness is that people tend to overwork some body parts while neglecting others.  This creates an imbalance.  Personal training prevents this.  In our wellness program, we also recommend incorporating chiropractic care and massage to prevent injury.  Many people have structural or muscular imbalances present before they even hit the gym.  These imbalances can often be aggravated when working out.  The chiropractic and massage are also excellent at reducing the normal muscle soreness from exercise which makes it easier for people to keep going and not interrupt their program.  Finally . . .  results!  We all know people who work their tails off and still don’t get the changes they’re looking for.  This is where your program must be more complete.  If you’re looking for weight loss, you must realize that exercise is only about 30% of the solution.  A low glycemic diet with the proper amounts of protein, fruits, and vegetables is the other 70%.  You need to plan your diet with even more diligence than you plan your exercise especially in the beginning to get things going for you.  Some people need to do a detoxification, before even beginning, to rid their body of the toxins stored in the fat cells that can prevent fat metabolism from occurring.  What about stress?  We’ve all seen the commercials about cortisol – the stress hormone that deposits and maintains fat around the belly region.  This is a real thing.  If you cannot sleep properly and you cannot reduce the stress, weight loss is almost impossible.  We take this seriously and utilize meditation along with the diet and exercise to combat the stress component.  Even with all of this, about 10% of the time people still struggle due to hormonal imbalances that have developed over long periods of toxicity, insufficiency, and stress.  In these cases, I recommend consulting a doctor that deals with bio-identical hormones to complement the rest of your program and enhance results.

If you’re renewing your commitment to your health, please use some of the strategies listed above and consider joining us for our FREE wellness talk on December 10^th where we will workshop more of these strategies to help you meet your wellness goals for 2019. For more information, call our office at 812-273-HEAL (4325), or visit our Facebook page.

Behavior Modification

Is there something you know is bad for your health and potential for wellness, but in spite of that knowledge you do it anyway?  Perhaps you watch too much T.V. or stay up too late, or maybe it’s a toxic relationship, or most likely it’s something you put into your body.  We all do this, right?  Oh, we may feel guilty about it afterwards or pledge that we’re never going to do that again.  But the reality is that everything we do, we do because we want to – it gives us instant pleasure.  So the experts, advisors, or judgers in our lives will instruct us that we need to change our behavior.  Let me assure you that this approach will never work because all our behaviors are driven by our beliefs.  Until you change the way you believe or feel about something any attempt at changing the behavior will be short-lived.  Here is an exercise in “belief” modification.

Focus on that behavior that you know is not good for you – the one you do anyway.  Then close your eyes and think of the last time you indulged in this behavior.  While doing this, write down every thought you can recall or the conversation in your head that allowed you to indulge this behavior.  This internal dialogue is your actual subconscious belief about that behavior and it is a lie and merely a rationalization that you’ve programmed yourself to accept over time to provide you temporary pleasure at the expense of your health.  Now write down the consequences of continuing to engage in this unhealthy behavior.  Then right down the consequences (benefits) of changing or eliminating that behavior.  Finally, I want you to look at these consequences and benefits and write a true statement of how your life would be improved when you alter this behavior.  This statement needs to become your new internal dialogue and you need to write this down on a few index cards and post it on your mirror, your fridge, in your car, put a note in your pocket – anywhere you can review it multiple times each day.  You should review this every day for 30 days and see what changes.